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Of course not all relationships work out right?
Maybe fall in love too fast. Start saying stuff they don't mean.
Let me elaborate.

I don't understand why people say crap
like 'O babe I love you so much!' and starts saying
'Mr' or 'Mrs' blahblahblahblahblah. Perhaps things like; I want to be in your life
forever, you're the one and only. I'll never do this, or that...
IMO, I think that they don't mean the words they say. Why?
Because prior, they just met, they just started going out,
or a hookup, a day or two before they said such things. Then in
less than a month, they break up.

I think to say such things you have to trust one another.
You have to not rush into things. Most importantly, make sure you
have a great friendship level. If you want someone to stay in your life
for a long time, you must learn to be friends after the fact and also
in a relationship.

Don't go around to everyone you went out with,
start saying you love them. Break up. And say you love another
person within the week span of each break up.
Because you are lying. Most likely you left the person heartbroken,
who believed you, hurt them, and basically you look like some kind
of whore.

Not all of them are like that. There can be good reasons for a break up so soon.
Not all relationships are bad. Just... damnit you just met! So I don't think such thing is real.

I guess you can say you love a person soon.
You don't know if they are going to be in your life forever though,
or want them to be.

My definition on love:
Love is beyond words.
What you seek is- having an incredible feeling. Being happy with a certain person,
being family, loved one, or significant other; no matter what situation.

Perhaps being speechless in a relationship beyond the first kiss.
Having the same feeling over and over when you see them, the same way ever since you
first saw them.

Not caring what the world thinks.
Also being totally comfortable with one another.
To do anything for them, asking nothing in return.


That's like the basic definition for Love in my perspective.
Unconditional love. Yes, a little bit off topic. I guess my argument
didn't come out the same way I wanted it too.


The reason I can say that I can want my girlfriend to stay in my life for
as long as possible... hm. I can say that much more now, then in the
beginning. If it comes to a time if I can't be with her like that anymore, of
course it would crush me. I said I would do much for her, because I love her,
unconditionally. She is really my best friend. We learned about each other.
And it took months before our first kiss. We have a friendship base that we built
our love on. We can trust each other. And she's great.

Ahem.

I can only say that about a few people.
The only people I wake up for. Even you Bianca, I don't want
to let you go. smile ~is my special thread~
We go way back frand. [=

Anyway. Don't go flaunting your 'love' if it's been like, a day.
And put it on repeat. That's wrong.
Basically that's it.


Rant over.
Cause I've seen this a bajillions of time.
Gotta post something.