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Okay so today after school I was texting a friend of mine, and we got into an argument over who was a dork me or him. In the end he said we both were, so I said fine and he said I win. I asked him if he wanted a prize or something and he said, ya you are a good prize (red flag 1) so I asked (me being oblivious) if that made me his slave or something and he said said define slave and I asked what his definition was and he said that I didn't want to know, but I told him to tell me and he said that another guy(it's his def.) would say sex slave (red flag 2) so I was like thats messed up and he said that I was messed up and I said extremely so and he said I definitely was so I told him to shush and he said no so I said fine~ and he said 'I win again' (here's me being an idiot) I said 'what do you want another prize?' and he said yeah and told me to choose and I said he should pick (hello!) and he said that he thought of one but that it was uncalled for. I told him to tell me what it was and he said 'well I was thinking and then I saw a kiss scene then that's what I was thinking then I thought, what if I kissed you then said no' (which was slightly hurtful since he also said it grossed him out and that it would gross me out) so anyways skip ahead a few texts and he asked if I would ever do any of them (aside from the first) and I said Idk and then yeah. SO apparently he wants to kiss me because he asked that I tell him when I decide if I would or not.

Two problems with that
1. It's confusing and I'm not sure how I feel about him in that way... though I have had a few shocking dreams that involved me thinking of him that way etc.
2. I actually really love someone else, but it's on gaia and they're so far away, I mean I would never Never cheat on them, ever,
but when I think about being with my other friend.... I mean we get along pretty well, and it's not like it wouldn't work out, But I really do love this one guy, and leaving him would just about break my heart. What's left of it anyways. So I have no clue what to do.
Because I thought, thought hard, about what kissing my friend might lead to, and honestly if it did lead to what it might, I'd actually enjoy it. But like I said theres the whole thing with me loving this other guy, and its just.....
it's too much.
Too much to handle







**2015 EDIT**
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-holds up red flag-
Mistakes were made.