1. Guys come and go, and quite frankly love hurts 10x worse when it fails, so if you are really looking for love you should take a look at yourself and be 10000% sure that you are willing to love someone and be 10000% sure that if it fails you will cry for 2-3 days and then go back to the chase for true love, not fall for ever for 1 stupid boy, im just saying this by personal experience and so far its worked out pretty well, The reason why i understand this reason is because I loved someone once, and it failed horribly, but i got back on the horse with high hopes i would find someone for me, and i did, we lasted 2 years together and it ended horribly as well, but we both know that we are meant for each other because we got back on the horse and found out that its not the same....so what im saying here is that if you want to get a boyfriend, you should have a high self esteem and accept what is to come
2.School is a b***h, we all know it, there are people in this world that get bored and do bad things because they want to get boredom out of the way, and its the way you react how people will treat you, if you get pushed around in school you have to be strong and take the blow without a facial expression, and if you get knocked down hard stand up and push the person back, that is if it wasn't an accident, because sometimes it happens. Now the mind of people is a really interesting one and its no different anywhere, peer pressure will lead people to gossip, its how people mainly girls communicate, they will pick on anything they can grab, if you dress like a goth, if you are a slacker, smoker, etc... people will gossip and say things, and its how you react that gives you away, if you make a habit of dressing up like a goth, and someone gossips about you, and you quickly change your appearance to a girly girl then they will notice that they caught your weak spot, and will pick on anything they can, now you just need to be yourself, if you are a tough girl, then dont let anything stop you for being who you are, if you are gentle then dont change, its the way you are how you will make a positive appearance in peer pressure, and maybe find a boy. because we all know, we hate it when someone pretends to be something they arent, and turn out to be the opposite.
3. Friends come and go, you have to keep your chin up and high, its the ability to make new friends that will keep you going, start with a small conversation, no matter how small or big, just keep it going, people skills are really handy when you need them, and if you learn how to handle it you will learn instantly how to handle 2-3 people at once and eventually a crowd, even then peer pressure of other people. Just keep your chin up, and learn to appreciate the friends you have that mean a lot to you, you know as much as they do that you need each other for the good and the bad times because that's what friends do.
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