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WOW. THIS IS SO ME RIGHT NOW:

Some of the descriptions below are written in the third person, others- in the second; it is all about you.



General Characteristics (gray table)
Tendency to stabilization + dependence on feelings + self-assertion
You are trying your hardest to establish a reliable, steady and orderly relationship, which could guarantee you a long-term satisfaction of your needs and, at the same time, wouldn’t be of any damage to you.




Your Desired Objective
Wants to make a favorable impression and be rewarded as a special personality. Is therefore constantly on the watch to see whether he is succeeding in this and how others are reacting to him; this makes him feel that he is in control. Uses tactics cleverly in order to obtain influence and special recognition. Susceptible to the esthetic or original.




Existing Situation
Feels obstructed in his desires and prevented from obtaining the things he regards as essential.




Your Restrained Characteristics
You are ready to emotionally accept others and participate affectionately in the general process. Seeking to settle all compelling tensions and satisfy your own sensual needs. You want to feel yourself emotionally involved in a relationship, are capable of to be satisfied by sexual activity.




Your Stress Sources
An emotional relationship is no longer running smoothly, has proved deeply disappointing, and is now regarded as a depressing tie. While on one hand, he would like to free himself from this attachment altogether, yet, on the other, he does not want to lose anything nor risk uncertainty and the possibility of further disappointment. These contradictory emotions aggravate him to such an extent that he tries to suppress them beneath an aloof and severe attitude.




Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and he is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. He attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as he desires them to be.