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loves mystery

To me love is a mystery something that is elusive to those who seek it and unexpected for thse who dont, no one can hand pick their husband or wife its not planned or decided it just happens so i guess people have no control over it thats whay it scares so many, becasue there is so much to love that is unknown some go throughout casually date and then get married and have kids only to realize that they are not in love but they are simply doing what is expected of them so in a sense they are trying to make the decision for themselves instead of waiting for it but is it the fault of a person or society. I can recall many conversations that i heard during highschool where girls told their friends they need to get wit somebody because it LOOKS BAD TO BE ALONE so in actuality people sometimes jump into relationships to avoid looking like an outcast or to satisfy the opinion of others so this means that without question some relationships in which someone got hurt started because someone didnt want to be alone...... this brings up a good argument i posed this theory to a group of students on campus and a couple of guys replied back that u dont get into a relationship to fall in love u get into it because of a physical attraction between u and that person, obviously this is not the case for everyone but i wonder how many people women and men share this thought well in my opinion it doesnt matter because i will walk the path of life and wait for that special girl to come along and find me i will not overly seek her but yet keep a keen eye to my enviroment for her angelic face and a sharp ear for her seductive voice while i wait for her to come into my arms and we sit back in a warm embrace......... heart heart