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I'm a friendly easy to get along with person, right? When somebody likes you more than just friends how the heck to you get them off your back without hurting their feelings? I always tried to get them uninterested me, but it would never work. Its like they enjoyed wasting their time and keep coming back.

Heh heh sweatdrop he keeps asking me to hook up. but I would just smile sweetly and say I cant my daddy wont let me. Its not like I wasn't kind of telling the truth. I just didn't want to hurt him or shatter his pride(something that is everything to males my grandmother told me)Id use that excuse.

I mean enough already sheesh! Hed ask me what kind of guys I liked.
I would say something like"umm well I love cowboys."
he'd quickley answer something like "Oh yeah I dress like a cowboy after school. I got the boots the hat the works."
me"uh well I go to church alot so I wouldn't have time really, but thank you for asking."
him: "oh yeah I go to church like three times a day and s**t, man jesus is my homeboy."
what would it take with this guy? everything that I would say to try to turn him off wouldn't do anything. But thats the way it is for me right now. My friends say its because I'm too nice, they say I should just be a biyotch about it. I just cant do that, it isn't in me to be mean. I can be at certain times of certain things but not hurt people's feelings, it breaks my heart.

And I wouldn't like it if I had a crush on a guy and got rejected, though I would never tell him and be all over him, I'd just let him come to me. My grandmother told me to never hurt the ones that love you.

If he continues to keep it up what do I do?
Do I really have to get mean? I dont know if I can do that. what do I do?! eek gonk sad