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What comes to my mind when I hear the quote “All men are the same”.
We've all heard this. Why is this quote being constantly said by the opposite gender?
What is so wrong with us that even when we are individuals, we all end up being the same?
I tried to analyze the situation and locate the possible reasons why "All men are the same".
There's a trick to that quote. From the point of view of a girl, we are all different. (If we were all the same from the beginning then once they have dated a guy, they have dated them all – no fun they say) So it's fun to go out and meet new guys. Some bring flowers and smell nice, others simply know how to say things, and others just look hot.
Ok but, what's wrong with being human? We're not perfect, we screw up! There are so many things out there that can stray us from our path. No matter how we screw up, what matters is that we did. Let's face it, we all screw up sometime. Right, now, while most of us can make it up for our screw ups, what really hurts is this: You can be a saint and if you do something wrong, anything at all – you will be remembered for what you did wrong. While this is not entirely true, and it may seem the reason why we are all the same, it isn't… because there's more that could cause us to be the same.
Nowadays sex is everything to most guys. Think about it, I say I'm a virgin and people think I'm gay. If I said I had an orgy people look up to me (Well that's because I'm a guy, if a girl says she had an orgy she's either considered a "slut" or the next target…) This is all because of the society we live in. Have you ever heard a parent ask his 6 year old son how many girlfriends does he have? I'm sure you have, but if you hear a parent ask his 6 year old daughter how many boyfriends she has you think that parent is crazy, that she's already selling her.
So, where does all of this fit? Here is the usual, basic story (NOT every guy does this…): A girl likes a guy, the guy notices she likes him and sees her as an easy target so he considers becoming her boyfriend… Once he has what he wanted (not necessarily sex but it's usually what they're after) there's no need for her. They either break up, or the guy ends up looking for the next target. This never ends in a nice way. Girl is brokenhearted and now she can't trust guys. I've heard tons and tons of versions of this story and I'm honestly disappointed at how many guys do this, as if this was something natural.
Most of my friends say "If the two love each other, why can't they have sex". In my opinion I don't want to have sex… not just sex… I want something much more. If I truly respect and love the one I'm with, I want to make love, not just have sex. When you have sex you may start looking at your partner like an object… the one who gives you what you desire when you're horny (I thought there were already objects that can do that). Now, when you make love, you're not just pleasuring yourself or your partner. You're using the greatest way to display your strongest feelings to the one you really love, the one you really want to be with for the rest of your life. But that's just my opinion… (lol) that's the way I'd like it to happen… even if I also love the idea of rough crazy sex all over the house, furniture, bathroom, pool, sauna, garage, garden, car, neighborhood, tree house, etc. (I want to do that so bad, but with the one I marry!)
Anyways…………………
I've lived my whole life trying to prove it to everyone that not ALL of us are the same. I could die trying… but, if I die trying, wouldn't that mean that I was different? So then, not all of us are the same…
It's all up to us! Guys! Respect them ladies, treat them well, and if you start liking someone else, think about this good 'ole quote I found years ago:
"Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one you love."
 LegendaryXAK · Wed Nov 15, 2006 @ 02:26pm · 0 Comments |
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